Life in the German Democratic Republic
This story has been told by my cousin, Lauren. Since travel
to Greece requires at least one stop, why not have your stop be Berlin. I was
so impressed at Lauren's husband's generosity and kindness during my stay in
Berlin. It gave me an opportunity to experience life in Germany post the Berlin
Wall. So enjoy this true, yet entertaining story of Chris.
Chris was born in
1947 and was the youngest of three children. His mother was a divorced high
school teacher. This single parent had a daughter and two sons who lived with
her in a little town called Henningsdorf. This town is on the outskirts of
Berlin. Chris' mother found that taking care of three children was quite taxing
so she employed a nanny during the day to take care of the two-year old child,
Chris. His mother and her two children then moved to West Berlin while Chris
stayed with his nanny in Henninsdorf.
The cold war heated up. Berlin was the center of tension in
Germany. A few years later, Chris started the first grade. His mother wanted
him to go to school in West Berlin. Chris crossed the border every day alone to
go from Henninsdorf to West Berlin and then in the reverse. A year later when
Chris was seven, the East German Authorities visited his nanny and demanded a
decision as to if he was going to stay in the east or go to the west. Chris was
to continue to stay in the east until high school. She attempted to convince
his mother of this plan.
In 1961, during his sleep, the Berlin Wall was erected to
prevent the further flow of people who fled from the east to seek new lives in
the west. Chris, a fourteen year old boy, has remained with his nanny who was
sixty-nine years old. Their relationship was a bit strained. She was old and
Chris was strong- willed and in the midst of adolescence.
Chris' mother began to urge the nanny to apply for a family
reunion through the International Red Cross. She realized that the political
situation in East Germany was a time bomb which could easily explode at any
given moment and knew it was of fundamental importance to get that child out of
the East asquickly as possible. Therefore, Chris' mother followed this advice
to save her child from an uncertain destiny in the east.
Ironically, two years after the Berlin Wall was built, Chris
was able to legally leave his nanny and be reunited with his mother, sister and
brother. It was a truly remarkable and unusual case due to the age of Chris'
nanny as well as his age. If she had been younger, the authorities in the east
would never ave allowed him to leave for the west. In this case, the East
German authorities were afraid that the authorities were afraid that his nanny
might soon die or become incapable of caring for him any longer. If that
happened, Chris might have been doomed to live in an orphanage.
East Germany made their decision based on an international
recognition at that time and wanted to present itself as a civilized state.
Amazingly enough, one and 1/2 years later, Chris left the
east and he started his senior year as a high school exchange student in Santa
Monica, California. What an ending to Chris' unique life in GDR.
by Roberta Mark Engel